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Saturday, October 29, 2011

Dating Co-workers - Good or Bad idea?

On Valentine's Day, I didn't have a valentine. I had work. The whole shift, they guys kept disappearing to the back and they wouldn't tell us what was going on. So at the end of the shift, they told us they were trying to plan a group date with our crew at the Creamery. When we were done closing, I went up and got my bags and one of the male coworkers followed me up the stairs. He got down on one knee...and asked me to marry him. No he didn't. He just asked me to go on a date with him that Friday. I told him I'd have to look at my schedule, but most likely that would be fine with me. Then he didn't show up at work after that at all. Turns out he didn't have his social security card or something, so he wasn't allowed to work until he got it, and it was being mailed. So I didn't know if this date was actually happening. But one of the other guys in my crew was still planning it all out. But this guy has Asperger's (a form of autism) so...I still wasn't sure if this date was actually happening.

So it's Friday afternoon, and my "date" is still trying to figure out if he's actually going to be my date tonight or not. He can't contact the guy that was planning it all out. But...earlier I guess we all planned to meet at the Creamery. So we decided we'd just go there and if everyone else was there, we'd go. If not, we'd just...not go on a date. I lived right by the Creamery (and so did my date). So I watched him walk past my window. He didn't pick me up or anything (which is totally fine, because we all agreed just to meet at the Creamery). I just thought it was funny because I watched him walk right past my window.

We all met up at the Creamery (the other two couples were there). The guy that planned out the date (the one with Asperger's) asked if we wanted to say a prayer before heading out. But...we all felt a prayer would be inappropriate for the place and situation we were in. So we headed out to Legend's Grill for dinner. I felt a little bad for my date, because Legend's is a little pricy, and he didn't really have a say in where we were going to eat. And I know he wasn't interested in me, so it's not like he wanted to spend a whole lot of money on me anyway. But we ate and all laughed at how awkward the whole thing was. Because it definitely was pretty awkward.

After dinner, we went to the Planetarium. They had a Harry Potter show, which I'm sure would have been AWESOME but I kind of fell asleep. I swear, no matter how awake and alert I am before I go in the Planetarium, I can never stay awake once the show starts. It's just dark, and I'm comfortable in the reclining chairs...and I'm a sleep deprived college student. So I may have fallen asleep. But I wasn't the only one. So I suppose I feel justified.

When I woke up...or when it ended, our crew headed outside to look at the REAL stars. Just for a lil bit. Then...we were all pretty much done. I think all of us (except the guy who planned it all out) didn't really want to be there. It felt like one big pity group date. Ithink it really would have been more enjoyable if we all just decided to hang out. That would have been more appropriate for the situation than a date. Would have made it a lot less awkward. So...we walked back to the Creamery and just talked for a bit and decided to peace out. So I went home (he didn't walk me home either. my dorm was right across the street). It was still pretty early. So...I watched Lord of the Rings. Alone. With a boy. Good times. :)

Best. Date. Ever. ?

Alright guys, I'm way behind and I've got LOTS of catching up to do. Sorry about that.

So once upon a time I lived in Heritage Halls. Great place for freshman! Occasionally we get some returned missionaries living there. Some of them are ok to ask freshman girls on dates. Some of them stray away. But mostly...sometimes returned missionaries aren't used to dating girls.

So one Sunday evening (like two days after the blind date I went on) I got a knock on my door. It was a boy! It was one of the RM's living in Heritage wanting to take me on a date. To the MTC. :) We planned to make a lil visit to the TRC to pretend to be investigators. He looked at the schedule and we planned to go on Friday. Awesome. I had never been to the TRC. I thought it was kind of an interesting idea for a first date, but I thought it would be cool.

So Friday rolls around, he shows up at my door. We walked to the MTC together and checked in at the front desk. I saw someone from my ward back home, which was pretty cool. I talked to him for a wee bit, then I went with my date to the building for TRC fun. When we got there, they told us they didn't have any English-speaking missionaries signed up for that time. Oops. They told us we could do it in Spanish. I don't speak any Spanish...like at all. He served in Brazil, so he could speak Portuguese...so we decided to just go for it and have a little Spanish lesson with the missionaries. So for the next half hour while I waited, I tried to learn as much Spanish as I could while trying to make conversation with my date.

After about a half hour, they asked us to go in the room, and the missionaries came and knocked on our door. They started talking to us in Spanish (they were pretty new, so their Spanish was still pretty rough). My date talked to them, and because their Spanish was pretty basic it wasn't too hard to communicate. I just mostly smiled and nodded and tried to understand what they were saying. When we got to the lesson they were able to teach in English, so everything was fine there. We were supposed to be Buddhists or something according to our paper. But after the first lesson, the guy in charge came in and told us we were not actually supposed to pretend to be Buddhists...I guess we looked at the wrong side of the paper. :) The rest of the lesson went pretty well, I suppose. It was cool to be in the MTC and see how the missionaries learn and stuff. It made my desire to serve a mission even stronger. :)

So after the MTC, we started walking back to Heritage. The whole time he was telling stories from his mission and asking me if I had any mission stories. I've never actually been on a mission, so I didn't have a lot to say or connect with. Mission stories are really cool...but I didn't really know him and I didn't have anything to connect with. So I guess I felt a little awkward. On the way back home, he asked me if I wanted to go to the Creamery. I work there. And go there on most dates...so of course I said yes. Because I like ice cream.

It was pretty crowded at the Creamery, so we had a good line to wait in. So guess what we did in line. Told more mission stories! Or...I guess mostly I listened to him tell mission stories. :) We got our ice cream, then he said "Hmmm...it's kind of crowded in here. Do you want to go back to your place?" And I thought to myself, "Nope, someone left their dirty dishes out all over the counter." So...we just went back to the lobby of Wells Hall. After eating ice cream for a while, he said, "Wait, you play the piano, right?" And I thought to myself, "I haven't practiced for like half a year." So...we ended up going to the basement and he had me play the piano. After like a slaughtered song and a half he said, "Do you play hymns?" and I thought to myself, "Yes, I do play hymns. But this has already been kind of a weird date." So...we ended up playing hymns together. He played the right hand and I played the left.

That went on for a while. Then my friend that set me up on a blind date the previous week came down the stairs. He saw me and said, "Hey Ginelle! So what did you think of (name of his friend I went on a blind date with)?!" And I thought to myself, "I'm on a date right now...I probably shouldn't be talking about other dates. I feel awkward again." So...I said, " He was really nice and he seemed pretty cool. Why?" And he said, " He was basically infatuated with you. He kept talking about you like all night." This made me laugh a lot. My date was just like..."Yeah...awesome....cool." So when he left we kept playing hymns for a wee bit. Then he said, "Oh! I have a video I just loaded on my phone I want you to watch." And I thought to myself, "Cool." And he showed me a seminary video of all the Stakes the have been organized around the world throughout the course of the time. It was a good video, but it really had nothing to do with what we were doing or talking about. Except...well, I guess missionary work. Which is pretty much all we were talking about. Then when the movie was over, he said, "Hey, do you want to see my mission pictures?" And I thought to myself, "uhhhhhhhhhhhh..." So of course we looked through all his mission pictures and he told me the stories behind all of them.

After we went through all his mission pictures, he looked at the time and said "Well, we should probably go. I've got some homework to do." And I thought to myself, "yep." So he walked my up the stairs to the door of my apartment, shook my hand, and walked away. And I went inside and told my roommates about my date.

It was just funny how "BYU" this date was. My date is a really good guy. He was still adjusting to getting back from his mission. I can tell he loved serving his mission, and he had a lot of cool experiences. He wasn't telling me his mission stories because he wanted to "impress me with his spirit" or anything. He just really enjoyed the work, and it was something he loved to share with others. I really do like mission stories, and I love missionary work! I plan to serve a mission someday. I just felt a little weird on the date, because I felt like I didn't have much to contribute to the conversation. And it was very missionary-oriented, to an extreme. Which is why I'm glad we're counseled to have "moderation in all things." Except sin.

That is all.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Blinded by the Light

I'm almost positive that this was my first blind date. I went on lots of dates with people I didn't know too well (almost blind) but no completely blind dates. I had been asked to go on one a couple days prior to this one, but I couldn't make it.
So my friend set me up to go on a date with one of his buddies from Idaho. He had two friends coming down and wanted to have a triple date. So we had three girls from Wells Hall and three guys from Idaho, and the whole night (until visiting hours were up) for romancing. or something like that.
My friend had me meet my date the night before. He popped over to say hello, and I was cooking something. So I probably looked super hot in my apron ;) The guy was nice. Yep. Nothing too exciting.
So the next day I had work. Then I got home. Then I had the date with the blind boy...or sorry, the blind date with the boy. I got ready real fast and waited. And he came to the door. With his friend. And I left my apartment. To go on the date. With the two other couples. Yep. Nothing too exciting.
We walked on down to the SWKT to penny golf. For those of you that don't know what penny golfing is, it's an activity in which you hold a penny over the edge of a huge stairwell (is that the right word for it?) and see how many floors it will go down. Pretty sure the SWKT has the only set of stairs that this game is good for. :) The objective is to get the penny down to the bottom floor with the least amount of drops. I had never done this before. Yeah, actually I had never been on the staircase of the SWKT before. I didn't have any classes there. But anyway, we walked up a couple flights of stairs...and took the elevator up the rest. We all took turns dropping our pennies over the edge and awkwardly trying to make conversation. My date was a huge basketball fan, so we talked about Jimmer. Because I'm a huge Jimmer fan. Well...not that huge but I like him a lot. We talked about... . . . not a whole lot else. :)
We made it down to the bottom floor, and I hadn't found my penny anywhere on the staircase. I was hoping it had just gone all the way to the bottom, but I didn't find it there either. So we got a new one, took the elevator up, and we all took turns dropping pennies again. We finished the second round, and decided to do a third and final round girls v. boys style. So I plotted with the two other girls and we decided to pretend to the drop the penny...but not actually drop it. Until we got to the very bottom. Then we would conveniently "find" that it had made it all the way to the bottom in one turn and we would dominate. Genius, right? :) So the first girl did it, as planned. But when I went to drop my penny, everyone was quiet and watching. So I kind of had no choice, and I had to drop it. But luckily it actually did go all the way to the very bottom. So I felt SUPER cool! Girls definitely won that round....even if we kind of cheated.
After penny golfing, we ate ice cream. At the Creamery (my favorite place). Then we went to the guy's apartment and played some games. And drew some pictures. My date drew a pretty (funny looking) picture of me and Jimmer. Oh so cute :) Then visiting hours were up, so we said goodnight and goodbye.

Epilogue: See next date for details.

Friday, July 22, 2011

Um, can I open the door for YOU?

So the day after I went on the almost curling date, I was asked on another date. SCORE! We were planning to go bowling with another couple, and yeah that's a pretty typical freshman date, but I was pretty excited. I had work right before, but I rushed home and got ready real fast and nervously waited for him to come. (Why was I nervous? Shouldn't I be used to this dating thing?) I think I tried to work on my Sunday School lesson or something to calm me down.

When he showed up, he was on crutches. What? When did this happen? He had hurt his knee playing basketball earlier (like weeks or months(?) earlier), but I thought he was better from that. But he explained to me that he played some bball that day and busted up his knee again. No good. I felt really bad when he tried to open the door for me, because he was a little gimpy. :) So I offered to open the door for him instead. I don't get that opportunity very often.

So obviously, we weren't going bowling. So once again, Plan A wasn't going to work out. So instead, they had set up a projector in the kitchen of their apartment, and hung a white sheet (with butterflies on the edges) on their kitchen wall. It was a pretty nice setup. :)

We watched Toy Story 3 and talked about little kids toys and stuff and things were fine and dandy until the DVD started skipping and stopping and spazzing out. We took an ice cream break while one of the guys tried to figure out the problem with the movie. He got ice cream NOT from the Creamery, because he knew I worked there. He's a thinker. :)

Yeah, the movie didn't ever start working again. So instead we played some games, like Monopoly Deal (WAY shorter than Monopoly). And we lost. And we watched some Sn0wSh0w videos, because they were supposed to be cool. :) And yeah. I think that's pretty much all we did. So yep. It wasn't a super extravagant date, but I had a lot of fun.

Stressed spelled backwards is DESSERTS

Okay, so I guess this wasn't a first date, but I thought it would be worth telling the story. And plus, it was one of the first 50 dates at BYU, so it totally counts.

Anyway. So this guy calls me up to ask me out and leaves a message. So I called him back, but he didn't pick up so I left a message. Pretty sure that happened a couple times. Usually, that's what happens when we call each other. So he asked me to go curling with him in Kearns, UT. I don't think I had ever been to Kearns. And I KNOW I had never been curling. So it sounded like an awesome adventure.

So he picked me up on a Friday night, and we meet the other couple in the car, and we head out to Kearns. We passed like five 7-Eleven's on the way. No, actually the driver got lost. A couple times. So maybe we only passed like two. But I swear, they were all over the place. So as I previously mentioned, the driver got lost a couple times so the car ride was longer than we had anticipated. Which meant we were LATE for our curling (for those of you that may not know what curling is, it's an Olympic sport on the ice. Look it up. It's not like curling your hair. But I think that could also be a fun activity.) lessons.

We decided to go inside anyway to check it out. We asked the lady at the front desk if it would be worth it to even try curling after we hadn't learned how :) She said we'd probably be a bit behind, but we could go try it out. So we walked in to the ice rink center place. I'm not really sure what to call the general area - it had a race track, and ice rink, and a different ice rink INSIDE the ice rink. So our little curling party was in the very middle of this whole place. So we walked on the track, totally oblivious to what was going on around us. So when we looked to the left, we found a nice little surprise called A RACE. We were totally standing in the way. So instead of getting off the track and out of the way, we decided to hop over the little wall and go on the ice rink, where people were skating and screaming while trying not to crash into us. We walked across the ice rink (in our regular shoes) to the inner ice rink, where the curling was supposed to take place. And we found a staircase (that we were supposed to take) that led down under the race track and the ice rink we weren't supposed to cross. So we felt pretty dumb.

So curling. We looked around and there were a lot of people speaking in sign language. I'm quite positive that several people there were deaf. So we couldn't really talk to them. So we moved on to Plan B. We went back to the front office (we took the stairs this time) and my date tried to figure out what to do. He suggested that we go to Wal*Mart and have a party...aka...buy stuff so we can make desserts. Because that's my idea of a party. So we headed to Wal*Mart. And my date said he's scared of ice anyway...(then why would he ask me to go chill on the ice with him on a date? Whatevs.) :)

So at good 'ole Wal*Mart, each couple was given an item they had to get, and they had to plan a dessert that would include that item. Me and my date had to use strawberries, and the other couple had to include cinnamon. So we bought strawberries. And sugar. And that's it. so we could make CREPES! good thing i'm a good thinker. :) The other couple bought cinnamon gum. good thing they're good thinkers too. They also bought cinnamon rolls...like Pillsbury ones from a can.

We headed back to Provo to his apartment and I made crepes. I tried to flip them in the air to turn them over, because that looks super cool. And it's fun....if you can do it. It worked a couple of times.

Then we ate the food. And he walked me home. And it turned out to be a pretty good Plan B. I guess if he was scared of ice, it could have been an answer to his prayers. The end.

Saturday, June 25, 2011

My Soul Delighteth in the Song of the Heart

Once upon a time, I was asked by a guy if I have a boyfriend. The answer is no. And that's what I told him. So his next question was "Do you want to go on a date this weekend?" The answer is yes. I was friends with this boy, and he was pretty nice. Plus, he would make banana bread and cinnamon rolls for my apartment. Definitely a plus. So we went on a date. And it went a little like this:

He picked me up. Not like, off the ground, but he came to my apartment. And knocked on my door. Then we walked to the HFAC to watch the BYU Singers and Concert Choir. I was in choir in high school, and it had been a while since I heard choir music other than MoTab, so I was pretty excited. We got there kinda early, because he wasn't exactly sure if the concert started at 7 or 7:30, but it was all good.

We talked. Because people usually talk on dates. Then the concert started. So we stopped talking. Because people usually do that during concerts. The music was incredible! I had forgotten how beautiful music can actually be. It was a pretty cool experience. The music was so peaceful and calming that I fell asleep. Maybe. To this day, I'm not really sure if I actually fell asleep...or just rested my eyes. It was an accident. I think my date might have "rested his eyes" for a little bit as well. So I don't feel as bad. But I do feel bad.

So the concert ended, and he didn't really plan anything after. But he didn't want to say goodbye just yet, I guess. So guess where we went. The Creamery on 9th (because the vast majority of my dates somehow involve the Creamery...where I work. :) Good thing I like ice cream). So the Creamery was jam packed with people...because a concert just got out. And we didn't really feel like waiting in line. So we bought chocolate instead, and decided to make chocolate mousse.

So we went to his apartment and started making chocolate mousse and his roommates were there playing Snorta (great game, by the way). And we put it in the freezer to let it set. And we had to wait. But we didn't really have anything to do. So we went out to the lobby of his hall, but people were waltzing. So we couldn't stay there. So we went downstairs and played piano for a very short while...but that wasn't too exciting. So we ended up back upstairs in the lobby sitting on the floor eating the chocolate that wasn't used for the mousse. Great activity! :) Then we checked on the mousse and it was kind of set...but not totally congealed (if that's the right word for it). :) But we ate it anyway. Sitting on the floor. It was excellent.

So yep. I'm pretty sure he just walked me home after that. It was good. Possibly too much chocolate...but it was good.

The End.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

The Brad Pitt Rule

Once upon a time, a wise friend of mine told me of "The Brad Pitt Rule." It goes something like this: Let's say you have some plans with some friends for a nice Saturday evening. Then Brad Pitt asks you out. Are you still going to hang out with your friends, or will you drop whatever you're doing for Brad Pitt? Duh, you would change your plans and hang out with Brad Pitt! (Assuming you like Brad Pitt, of course)

So how does this apply to dating not super hot movie stars? Well let's say you have some plans with some friends for a nice Saturday evening. Then some kids asks you out. Are you still going to hang out with your friends, or will you drop whatever you're doing for some kid? I guess if you drop whatever you're doing, you're pretty much telling him he's Brad Pitt to you.

I was unaware of this rule before this date.

So I worked at the Creamery and I enjoyed talking to customers. Making customers happy helped me to be happy, so I usually tried to engage in small talk with them. So a kid from my ward came to the register and I made small talk with him. I recognized he was in my ward because at the beginning of the school year, there was a huge poster up in his window that said "Ladies, get ready for (this kid)." So I recognized his name when I swiped his ID card. So I told him that I recognized that he was in my ward, blah blah small talk whatev.

So when he was done eating his food and wanted to get his ice cream (it was a kid's meal - best deal ever), he wanted "a scoop of (i don't remember what flavor) and your number." So I gave him my number.

Like two days later, there was a Halloween party for Heritage Halls, and I just so happened to be there. And so did he. So he kind of hovered around me, and I tried to stick close to my FHE brother. :) The next day, I had work and he came in at the endish of my shift. And ate food. And just stuck around there. All my himself. Probably waiting for me to get off. But I was on register, so I didn't see him when I left. I got home and told my roommate about his peculiar behavior, and my phone rang. It was him. Surprise! :)

He asked if I wanted to go bowling with him...like on a date...because they have a special deal if you wear a costume for Halloween and stuff like that. I had plans to go dance around in the Wilk with my Stake and go see Inception in the dollar theater. I told him this. But he persisted. And I felt weird. So I said yes to the date....and left like 10 minutes later on the date.

So we went to the Wilk, and all the bowling alleys were full, so we played to arcade games. Totally whopped his trash at air hockey. Then the alley opened up and we bowled. And he asked me great questions in between bowling...like "What's you're favorite color? Green? Awesome." *go roll the ball down the alley*

So after bowling, he walked me back to my apartment. Then I thought he was going to leave and go home. But he came right in the door to my apartment. Luckily a roommate and some friends were there. Then we just sat and talked...for a couple hours. But I kind of really wanted him to leave. oops. :) So when my roommate's friends left (which probably wasn't until visiting hours were up) he left.

That's pretty much it. Moral of the story: If you have legit plans for the night, you DO NOT have to give them up to go on a date with someone you don't really know. So don't feel obliged to do so. :)

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Homecoming Spectacular

Once again, Fall 2010.

So I was going on (I guess you could say) quite a few dates, and I was getting a little frustrated, because...I guess boys can be clingy sometimes. Or I'm just not used to it or something. But I was explaining my frustrations to one of my fellow Creamery workers and I checked my phone to find that I had a new voicemail. It was a message from another boy (another boy that worked at the Creamery) asking to go to the Homecoming Spectacular. Great.

So I'm pretty sure I called him back, but he didn't answer, so I left a message. Then later I think he called me back, but I missed his call so he left a message. And we played a little bit of phone tag. :)

The night of the Homecoming Spectacular comes. My roommates were going (with each other) so they left and I was left home alone. I guess my date got lost finding Wells Hall (not too hard to find, it's the best hall in all of Heritage) BUT he eventually found his way. We walked on down to the Marriot Center and found our seats with his group of friends - like 2 rows behind my roommates. (Oh boy.) So we said hi to them, and they probably teased me or something like that. Good times.

So we watched the Homecoming Spectacular, and it was pretty spectacular. The Cougarettes are super hott (with 2 t's, of course ;)), as always. We talked, but not the whole time. Because that's obviously not good etiquette.

The show ends and we head back to Wells Hall. But of course it's a Friday night, so the lobby is full of people. So we stand around outside and talk to a while, then the conversation slows, so it's time to split. So usually this is where the couple hugs or something. But....I don't know. He just kind of walked away awkwardly. Bye! It was pretty funny.

Overall, it was a pretty enjoyable date, and it wasn't awkward at all, until the very end. It just made me laugh though.

Then I came it the hall and (I'm pretty sure) I told Karen all about it. Great times. :)

The End.

Friday, April 15, 2011

Is arranged marriage a good idea? What about arranged dating?

I don't really remember the order of the dates I went on...but I thought I should keep recording my stories before I forget them all.

So this is still Fall 2010

I love my Bishopric! I really do. They're super great, and they're very successful, funny, spiritual men. But it's really weird to have someone in your bishopric set you up with their son. But I guess they don't have a problem with setting their RM sons up with baby freshman.

So a member of my BYU Bishopric would come to the Creamery every Tuesday (when I was working) with his 12-year-old son to get some food after picking him up from football practice. I guess his little son thought I was pretty cute, and he told his 22-year-old brother that he should come in to the Creamery one week. We joked about this for a couple weeks. Then he actually came in.
Bishopric man: "Hey Ginelle, this is my son."
Son: "Hey Ginelle, my dad's told me a lot about you"
Ginelle: "Uh.....hey. I've....heard about you."

So I thought that was all. But to my surprise, he came back to the Creamery on Thursday (the next time I worked) all by himself. He approached me as I was helping a customer.
Son: "Hey Ginelle, I know you don't really know me, but would it be cool if we went on a date sometime?"
Ginelle: "Wait, what's you're name again?" (That's actually what I said. How embarrassing, huh?)

He told me his name. Then he got my phone number. And he used it a couple days later to ask me on a date. He picked me up one day after work and we ate food. At Chili's. I felt super awesome eating food with my braces. We talked, but he seemed kind of shy. I guess he is kind of shy. At least that's what his pops said. So it seemed like I needed to initiate conversation, or we just wouldn't talk. And that's always fun.

So we ate food and he took me back to good ole Heritage Halls. Pretty dang exciting.

So yep. It was almost like a blind single date. Because we didn't know each other at all. But he's a nice kid.

The end.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Oh boy. So I guess you could say that I've gone on quite a few first dates. Some of them have been fun, some of them have been super awkward. Most of them have been typical freshman dates. And super awkward. So I will start from the very beginning.

Fall 2010

Pretty sure my first date here at BYU was with an RM. I knew this guy a little bit from high school, because he accompanied the SFHS choirs, but we had probably only ever talked once before he went on his mission. He got home a couple weeks before fall semester started, so the day he got back from his mission, he visited the friendly neighborhood Coldstone Creamery to visit an old friend. I also happened to be working that night, so I said hello to him. Yep. Nothing too exciting.
So a couple weeks into the semester, I saw him on campus. So I said hello to him. I do that to people sometimes. He couldn't remember my name at all though. So I told him my name, and we went our separate ways. Once again, nothing too exciting.
So a couple weeks later I get a text in the morning from an unknown number. Turns out it was him, and he got my number from his good old friend at Coldstone. It was really funny, because when pulled I out the little desk in my first class, someone had carved his name in it. Coincidence? Maybe.
We chatted (well, texted) for a little bit about growing up to be a rockstar and a hairstylist and donating hair to Locks of Love. Which was funny because the next day on campus, I saw a sign for a Locks of Love hair drive. Coincidence? Maybe.
But anyway...back up. So we chatted (well, texted) and basically said "hey, I know you don't know me super well, but would it be okay if I asked you on a date sometime?" Yes, that was definitely kosher with me. He seemed like a pretty alright guy. So then he said "okay, but here's one question that's all for the marbles. Do you ice skate?" All for the marbles? I don't know if I've ever heard that phrase before. And I'm also not that great at ice skating. Not like I'm terrible, I just have a little bit of a fear of ice. I just feel more comfortable when I know I'm not about to fall at any second. Last time I went ice skating on a date, my date thought I was too slow or something, so he skated with the other guy in our group and I was left to fend for myself on the ice. So I wasn't about to lie, I told him I'm not the best ice skater. And he said "Okay, we'll have to do something else."
So he called me a couple days later and said "I know you said you're not great at ice skating, but how about we go ice skating on a date on Friday?" awesome, I thought I could get out of going ice skating on a date. didn't happen. But whatever. Date. Fun. So I agreed.
So Friday comes along, and of course I'm a little bit nervous. I don't really know this guy, it was my first date with an RM, and I was going ice skating. We get to the car and it's all awkward with door opening and stuff, because he wasn't going to open my door, but I wasn't even sure what car was really his, and yeah. Weird. So we get to Seven Peaks and he tells me that he used to go ice skating like at least once a week. Does he know what he's subjecting himself to? No, ice skating wasn't actually that bad. We talked pretty much the whole time, but I could tell he wanted to skate faster. He tried to teach me a few tricks, but I didn't get too far. He asked if he could go around fast once and catch up to me, so he left. And I fell down as soon as he was gone. But I got back up and by the time he came back around, he didn't even know. :) But I told him. Then I fell down a couple more times. He usually helped me up. But we decided I should switch to hockey skates. But I don't know if it made much of a difference, because I still fell down a couple times. But overall, it was pretty good. We were able to talk to each other pretty easily, and after I got over the initial nervousness of being on ice, I was fine. It helped when I was talking, so I wasn't concentrating as much on the ice.
So we're done ice skating and we start driving back and he turns to me and says "On a more serious note..." then sings a note "I know you work at the Creamery, but would it be okay if we went and got some ice cream?" Yes, of course. I like ice cream (and i don't have to pay for it on a date).
So we go to the creamery and eat ice cream and talk some more. Then....we're done. So he walks me back to Wells Hall and when we get in the lobby, he talks about how the doorstep scene is always his favorite part of the date, especially when other people are around to watch. He was joking of course, but there was another couple hanging out in the lobby. So they would just have to watch. But whatever. We hugged, he left, I went in my dorm. The girl in the lobby knocked on my door like two minutes later and asked about my date. It was just kind of funny. There's not a whole lot of privacy for doorstep scenes here at college. ;)

Overall, it was a pretty decent date. He was fun to talk to. He was fresh off the mission, so he talked about his mission a little bit, but he talked about other things too. I got a couple bruises from ice skating, but it wasn't too bad. I would go on another date with him. And I did. But that's another story for another time, sista.